Love and marriage, love and marriage…
October 6, 2008 in Life
This time I would like to share with you with my homework. No, I don’t want you to do it, not at all I’ve almost finished answering for a following question: Am I for or against marriage? It was the main subject of my modern greek lesson’s. In my group is many people from other countries in Europe. Unfortunately everyone could say that in last few years the number of “just married” came down, a lot! I think that’s very important question: why people don’t decide to get marry in church? Why they prefer to live together, sometimes even to have children but without marriage? It’s easier, right? But it’s much harder to go trought all bed days together. It’s harder to be in good, and a specially in bed times together. It’s easier to say: “sorry, I can’t stand it anymore”. That’s what I think, but let me know if I’m wrong. I’m not married, not yet.
You know what? I can even understand that someone chooses life without marriage, but when I think of it, it makes me sad. I really do believe that this wonderful relationship between men and a women, and fruit of their love, baby, comes from God. It’s gift from Him, love and baby. Sometimes we don’t see it, how precious it is. And we refuse these gifts ‘cause we want to live on our own. Why it happens? Why people divorce? Why they don’t want to get marry? Is it possible to change it somehow?
It’s hard and very huge subject. But maybe you would like to share with us with your experience and thoughts?
Hi,
Believe it or not, the subject you raised is still the biggest issue of all ages which is also the same time this is the toughest part to answer. I myself had have read too many articles or books relate to love and marriage as other people do. If we talk about this subject farther, a bunch of reasons or too many factors are coming in the surface to keeping peoples doing live together without marriage or having child before marriage or divorce or other bitter sin of mankind. We can write too many pages if we want to describe all of these motives. But what I’m trying to say is as a Christian and especially as part of youth, let us each of us who know the truth and that we’re living in the light shall transform the true way of life surrounding our friends. We really want to change our friends motives to the true motives but let us do this way by having our character pure, keeping ourselves concious to all actions we’ve taken and let spreading love amongst friends and other. We will very happy if there are people come and look for us to seek advise and encouragement when they acknowledge that we are live right according to the Bible,of course.
Glad to share this with you, God Bless you Karina.
Tuti – Banda Aceh, Indonesia
My name is Tasneem Qaisar. I am Christian belong to Roman Catholic and I am x-seminarian and I am working as a volunteer for one group named, “Gold Star Catholic Youth Group” and I am coordinator of Youth Crime Watch of Pakistan. We are mainly work on Primary Education and Primary Health for vagabond children, and especially we are working with children, awareness, Bible Study and, non violence communication, youths and suicide prevention strategy, and Children problems, Peace building about drugs and also community problems.
I feel comfort after doing these because of I know God want to me I do this. I am pleased and offer my self for this service. It’s my desire that I want to spend my life on way of God. “Pray to the owner of the harvest, that he will send more workers to gather in his harvest.” Matthew 9:38. How can I help you in Pakistan or where you need my help?
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