Child Marriage In India

April 30, 2009 in Asia/Pacific, HIV/Aids, Justice, Life, Youth

The origin of child marriages may be found in the Muslim invasions that began more than 1,000 years ago. Legend says that the invaders raped unmarried Hindu girls or carried them off as booty, prompting Hindu communities to marry off their daughters almost from birth to protect them. Today, these invaders have been replaced by superstition: the local view that any girl reaching puberty without getting married will fall prey to sexual depredations, some from men imbued with the common belief that having sex with a “fresh” girl can cure syphilis, gonorrhea and other sexually transmitted diseases, including AIDS.

n India, children are forced everyday into a relationship, of which they have only the faintest knowledge and for which they are not at all prepared. To push two physiologically and emotionally ill-prepared individuals into marriage is a compassionless way of looking at relationships. India’s Parliament adopted the Child Marriage Restraint Act in 1978 (a revision of the British Child Marriage Prevention Act of 1929 and the following amendment of 1949) setting 18 as the minimum age for women to get married and 21 for men. Nevertheless, like in many other Indian social spheres, the law seems inconsequential when it comes to protecting the rights of the poorest and most vulnerable people in society.

Women and girls are the main victims of child marriages. Sati is a Hindu practice which consists of the widow’s immolation on her dead husband funeral pyre. Women are seen as property with ownership rights to someone else, her parents, her husband or her in-laws. In some cases, husbands sell their wives, even their unmarried daughters, as sexual partners to other men.

Religion plays a key role in such harmful traditions and practices. The society in turn, instead of playing a watchdog role, is an enthusiastic participant in a deliberate perpetuation of entrenched interests, including property and social considerations, all which make child marriages so common.
Though INDIA has entered into the 21st century and aims to be a developed nation by 2020, some parts of India are still grey and caught up in the old, ill and conservative traditions that have already played enough havoc with the society.
Despite the so-called stringent laws, Indians still come across dreadful and fearful stories of children being forced to tie the nuptial knots even when their body and mind are not ready for marital relations.

Child marriage is still prevalent in India. One such gory incident recently came to the fore in a remote village of Kathua district, in Jammu and Kashmir (J & K), where a 10-year-old girl of class IV was ‘sold’ to a man three times of her age. More shocking was the revelation that the girl, who stayed put at her father’s house soon after the illegal marriage, was even raped by her ‘husband’.
As some of the villagers had objected to the marriage of the girl child at a young age, it was decided that she would stay with her parents till she attains marriageable age.But her husband, Rinku, who reportedly had ‘purchased’ the girl-child, wanted to take her to his house in Bandota village.Miffed at being denied to take the girl-child, Rinku visited her parental house and raped her in a nearby field. According to “National Plan of Action for Children 2005,” (published by the Department of Women and Child Development of India) a goal has been set to eliminate child marriage completely by 2010. This plan is proving to be successful, though it is still difficult to monitor every child due to the sheer population of India. According to UNICEF’s “State of the World’s Children-2009” report, 47% of India’s women aged 20-24 were married before the legal age of 18, with 56% in rural area The report also showed that 40% of the world’s child marriages occur in India.

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April 7, 2009 in Latin America/Carribean, Life, Youth participation

Raquel Kleber.

This week we had the fascinating experience of going to a village called Caimito, west side of Nicaragua. The several hours we spent to get there were totally rewarding. The community was waiting for us with songs and plays about Easter. We were under a 40ºC sun surrounded by those gracious people that had nothing but faith and the desire to move on.

I will take the smile of those kids with me forever. I am proud of belonging to this organization that cares for people like them.

Today  the 12 young leaders have the challenge to coordinate a social program in their communities. We certainly wil not change the entire world. But we may possibly change the life of a few people.

Martin Diaz.

Experiencias sobre el entrenamiento mundial de de la Federación Luterana Mundial para jóvenes lideres:

El trabajo de estudio y análisis sobre las necesidades de cada una de nuestras comunidades ha sido ardua durante estos ocho días, pero realmente hemos tenido la oportunidad de compartir las similitudes y diferencias entre nuestros países, y al analizar de una manera profunda nuestros países, nos damos cuenta que tenemos problemas y necesidades muy semejantes.

Este entrenamiento regional en Nicaragua se realiza de manera muy oportuna, pues nos encontramos en una crisis civilizatoria que golpeara de manera mas dura a los pueblos latinoamericanos y como Luteranos tenemos el compromiso histórico y teológico para hacer nuestro el sufrimiento del pueblo, esta semana en Nicaragua jóvenes lideres de comunidades Luteranas de toda América nos hemos unido para definir las acciones a tomar para cambiar y mejorar cada una de las realidades de nuestras comunidades.

Nosotros sabemos que como jóvenes no somos el futuro, sino el presente y esto nos ínsita a luchar de manera mas comprometida con nuestras iglesias pues sabemos que el día a día no se puede desperdiciar y eso, simple mente eso, es lo que hemos logrado en estos días, darnos cuenta de esa realidad, de la realidad que somos indispensables para el proyecto del triunfo del evangelio en cada una de nuestras iglesias, pues somos el espíritu de la iglesia luterana y de cada una de nuestras comunidades.

opportunity for Lutheran American Indian and Alaska Natives age 18-30

April 6, 2009 in Church, Life, LWF, North America, UN, Youth participation

Are you a Lutheran American Indian and Alaska Native age 18-30 living in the United States or Canada interested in global indigenous issues?

If so, please send an email with a short biography that details your participation with your Lutheran church, as well as your American Indian or Alaska Native community to: Malte.Lei AT elca.org by April 20, 2009.

We are looking for potential young adult participants to participate in the United Nations Permanent Forum on Indigenous Issues in New York, May 21-26, as part of a delegation of the Lutheran World Federation.  Select participants will have travel expenses paid for.

More information will be provided in response to qualified candidates.   This opportunity is only for those currently living in US and Canada at this time.